Online Breakup Coaching for Millennials

Psychology‑informed 1:1 breakup coaching to help you process the end of a relationship, stabilize your nervous system, and move forward - without repeating old patterns or rushing yourself.

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We’ll talk about what happened, where you feel stuck, and how tailored breakup coaching could support your specific situation.

You’re Not Just Sad…You’re Stuck in the Aftermath

The relationship is technically over, but it’s still running your thoughts, your nervous system, and your decisions.

You might notice:

Constantly replaying the relationship in your head, trying to figure out what you missed
Urges to reach out “one more time” for closure, reassurance, or a different ending
Overanalyzing their last text, their social media, or what they’re doing now
Numbing out with scrolling, work, hookups, or staying “friends” when it’s not actually neutral
A “stuck” feeling — like you can’t fully let go, but you also know you can’t go back
A deep fear that if you don’t learn from this, you’ll end up in the exact same relationship again

You’re not weak for feeling this way. You’re human - and your nervous system hasn’t caught up to the ending yet.

Learn more about why breakups hurt so badly

What Breakup Coaching Is

Coaching for When the Relationship Is Over —
but It’s Still Running the Show.

You don’t need closure from the other person. You need clarity, steadiness, and a way to stop replaying what already ended.

Breakup Coaching with Dr. Lindsay is psychology‑informed coaching for people who look “fine” on the outside but feel emotionally stuck, unsettled, or pulled backward after a breakup. Instead of a rigid package, we use a structured framework and tailor our work to what you are going through.

This is for the aftermath:

The overthinking
The urge to reach out
The self-doubt that shows up when things go quiet
The fear that you’ll repeat the same relationship again

You’re not weak for feeling this way.
You’re human—and your nervous system hasn’t caught up yet.

Breakup Coaching is for you if:

Don’t want to spiral, rebound, or numb out — but also don’t want to spend a year rehashing every detail
Want a structured way to move through the breakup without gaslighting yourself or your pain
Are self‑aware enough to know there are patterns here, and you don’t want to repeat them in your next relationship
Want clarity, steadiness, and a way to stop obsessing over someone who is no longer choosing you

You don’t need closure from your ex.

You need clarity, nervous‑system steadiness, and a way to integrate what happened so it doesn’t quietly run your future relationships.

The Breakup Reset framework

We move through three intentional phases as a map for our coaching work:

Stabilize → Understand → Repattern.

Phase 1: Stabilize
Support your nervous system and stop the acute spiral.

Make sense of what’s happening in your body and brain post‑breakup
Reduce the intensity of obsessive thinking and urges to reach out
Anchor into routines and supports that help you feel a little less chaotic day‑to‑day

Phase 2: Understand
Get clear on the relationship and your patterns without self‑blame.

Look at the relationship with more nuance than “all my fault” vs “all their fault”
Identify your attachment and breakup patterns - protest, pursuit, fantasy, avoidance
Understand why this relationship gripped you the way it did

Phase 3: Repattern
Make different choices going forward.

Work on boundaries (including with your ex and their orbit)
Practice new ways of relating to yourself while single
Clarify what you want from future relationships so you’re not dating from loss or scarcity

This isn’t about erasing the relationship. It’s about making sure it doesn’t quietly drive your next one.

Stabilize

Understand

Repattern

Core Value

Breakup Coaching helps you stabilize, make sense of the loss, and relate differently going forward - to yourself and to future partners.

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Investment

Most clients begin breakup coaching with a 12‑week 1:1 container at $3,300. This gives us time to stabilize after the breakup, make sense of what happened, and start relating differently to yourself and future relationships.

I’m Here to Help You Stop Spiraling, Understand the Pattern, and Move Forward With Clarity

Breakup Coaching:

-Weekly 45‑minute 1:1 breakup coaching meetings (with pacing adjusted as needed)
-A structured 3‑phase breakup framework we adapt to your story: Stabilize → Understand → Repattern
-Psychology‑informed, pattern‑focused support designed for real, sustainable change—not just a temporary distraction

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Take the Breakup Quiz to See Where You Are in Your Healing Journey

*This quiz is just for fun and should not be confused with psychological advice or a coaching relationship.

You Don’t Need to “Get Over It Faster.”

You Need to Get Oriented Again.

You can’t rush yourself into not caring. You can get support in understanding what this breakup is bringing up, what it’s asking you to see, and how to move through it without abandoning yourself.

Breakup Coaching is here to help you:

Stop looping and spiraling alone
Make sense of what happened without collapsing into self‑blame
Learn what you need to from this relationship so you don’t quietly repeat it next time

Get started with breakup reset coaching

If you’re ready to stop letting this breakup run the show and start relating differently - to yourself and future partners - this is where that begins.

Frequently Asked Questions

Below are the most common questions I hear about Thriving Solo:

Do I need to be completely “over” my ex before starting?

No. Most people start Breakup Coaching while they’re still very attached, confused, or even before the breakup is “official.” The first phase of the program is designed to help you stabilize and ground so you can think more clearly and re‑align with your values.

Is this a dating or “how to get your ex back” program?

No. Breakup Coaching isn’t about strategies to win someone back or get you back out there right away. It’s about helping you regain clarity, self‑trust, and emotional steadiness so that any future choices - including whether to reconnect -are driven by your values, not just fear and loss.

What is breakup coaching and how is it different from therapy?

Breakup Coaching is a psychology-based, psychoeducational, coaching breakup reset program. Coaching is goal-directed and future focused. Unlike therapy, it does not provide diagnosis, treatment, or mental health care, and participation does not create a therapist–client relationship. If you need clinical support, I’ll encourage you to also work with a licensed mental health professional.

Will this help me decide whether to reach out to my ex?

Possibly - but the goal isn’t to tell you what to do. It’s to help you understand why the urge is so strong and make decisions that are aligned with what you want long‑term, not just what feels urgent in the moment. Many people notice fewer impulsive urges to reach out and more mental clarity over time.

How is being alone different from being lonely?

Being alone is a circumstance; loneliness is a relationship to yourself. This program helps you cultivate connection, meaning, and emotional steadiness while single.

Is this only for romantic breakups?

No! An ending is an ending - romantic or otherwise. I don’t care if it was one week long or 45 years long, time doesn’t matter either. The loss is real. I am happy to tailor the program to help you heal from other endings as well. Some example include with: