I'm a Clinical Psychologist who spent years researching millennial relationships (and beyond) from hookups to committed partnership, the impact of social media and technology on relationships satisfaction and how we got so far aware from just being able to talk to each other.

But research wasn't enough. I became a matchmaker, dating coach and got a behind the scene understanding of the apps as a dating app consultant. I’ve worked with hundreds of people to help them navigate modern dating culture and find their partner... And here's what I kept seeing: People had perfect checklists for what they wanted in partners but weren't living those standards themselves. They wanted emotional availability but couldn't communicate their needs. They craved authenticity but were terrified of vulnerability.

I built UnPattern as a space for people who are done with the games. They’re ready to do the work and want to actually break their dating patterns rather than just complaining about it.

This is the kind of change where you become more yourself. More conscious. More free.

This isn't about finding "the one." It's about becoming the one—for yourself.

That’s self-actualization. And I’m here to help you get there.